Sunday, November 29, 2009

Catching Up

It's been a month since my last posting and what a month it's been. The day after Halloween I turned wrong and felt a sharp pain in my lower back. I took it easy the rest of the day, but by the following day I had pain shooting down my left leg. After a week of visiting the chiropractor with no relief, I made an appointment with our family doctor. He sent me to Billings for an MRI and made an appointment with an orthopedic surgeon the following day. I won't go into all the details but that appointment was extremely frustrating due to the surgeon kind of giving me the brush-off because he had a dinner to go to and they were having difficulties bringing up my MRI on the computer. He pretty much told me he didn't have time for me. He left a message the next day on my phone telling me what he thought was wrong and I could make another appointment to see him. At this point I had made the decision to shop elsewhere for anther doctor. In the meantime, we had a trip planned to Phoenix to celebrate our 41st wedding anniversary. We talked about cancelling, but I decided that I may as well hurt in Arizona as Montana so we flew to Phoenix on the 19th and spent three days visiting with our friends who moved to Tucson last year.

We stayed at the Hyatt Place in Mesa which had this beautiful fireplace in the lobby. The weather was beautiful while we were there, but it does cool off at night so I guess they do need fireplaces occasionally in the desert.

We met Terry and Terri when we first moved to Colstrip over 38 years ago. Ken and Terry became instant friends. They played tennis together, basketball, softball and as they got older Terri and I became golf widows. They moved to Tucson last year and have been missed. They drove up to Phoenix and spent a couple of days with us. We did some sightseeing, shopping and of course, eating. Even though I was somewhat limited with my leg pain we had a good time. While the guys golfed, Terri and I visited the Frank Lloyd Wright house, Taliesin West in the foothills of Scottsdale. He built his winter home here in 1937 and it became a camp for aspiring architects and it is still being used as as a architectural school. I was familiar with some of his work, but not with his personal life. I was so fascinated by him that I came home and ordered two books about his life and work from Amazon.














The panels on the roof in the picture below are made of canvas, so when it rains the water comes right through on furniture and whatever else is in the room.
When we returned home last weekend, I made the decision to find a new doctor and try to get something done with my back. An acquaintance told me about her doctor and he sounded almost too good to be true so I gave him a call. He was caring, knowledgeable and gave me the same diagnosis as the orthopedic surgeon. I made the decision to schedule surgery with him. When I told my sister about him she begged me to reconsider. It turns out that he did surgery on her mother-in-law and completely botched it. She also told me of several others who had bad results. So now what to do? Ken and I decided back surgery is so risky that we wouldn't dare have someone operate who we didn't entirely trust. So back to square one. Tomorrow I am basically starting over in my doctor search. The condition I have is called spondylolesthesis, basically the L5 vertebrae is fractured on both sides and slipped over the first bone of the sacrum and is pinching the nerve root (the reason for all the pain). Our cruise is only 8 weeks away so now I am worried about being able to go. We have travel insurance for the cruise but I don't want to cancel, we have been planning this for a year. Hopefully, I can find some answers and get something done soon. I have been living on pain pills and I hate taking pills!















6 comments:

Empress Bee (of the high sea) said...

oh no! you poor thing!!! here's exactly what i would do. i am a firm believer in chiropractic adjustments and i would go that route. when i had siatica really bad it took seven weeks of treatments three times a week but it worked and i am pain free. just my two cents. you are going on the dream 1/23, right? be there or be square!

smiles, bee
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Gran said...

My Doc was Dr McDowell and i ws and am very pleased with the results of my surgery. I had lumbar disc disease at L4-5 and they did an anterior fusion. I don't know if that kind of thing would work for you, but I really liked Dr McDowell. Good luck!

stephanie said...

I hope you feel better soon, I would hate for you to miss your cruise.

Joan said...

Back pain is the worst. I have it too and sometimes it is hard to get the day going. I once had a doctor that had a terrible bedside manner but was a really good surgeon. Ask around for references. I hate being patronized but maybe the Doc was having a bad day. Back surgery is really tricky and you need to be sure. Where is the cruise this time?

Pops said...

Your back, my knees! We must be getting old...though I think you are even older than me! Good luck...Linda

Laurel said...

I am so, so sorry about your back! I had that herniated disk in my upper back this summer and it was the worst pain I have ever experienced. You have my empathy! And how funny you were so close to us. I know right where the Hyatt is. We could have passed each other and not even have known it! Hope you had a good time, despite the pain. The weather was lovely while you were here.